I know what you mean! I am in MT school also, and I used to think I was good at English and grammar! Commas can be so tricky, and it seems some of the information out there is contradictory. It definitely seems that the trend is toward fewer commas. The only rule that is black and white for me and that everyone seems to be in agreement on, is that if you have two complete thoughts separated by and, but, for, or, nor, so, yet, you use a comma. But you probably already know that one. Some of the other comma scenarios can be much trickier! For example, I don't understand why you use a comma before the word too at the end of a sentence. I will check back later to see if you get any good advice on this subject.
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